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| Final verdict |
Till now, I hope she will be able to give a right answer to the question I quoted from Solape Coker's(today is her birthday) piece "Are You Sure". Perhaps I will get a right answer to the question after reading this:
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Tunde and Bisi have broken
up! After
2 years? Biodun and Bose just broke up last week! He came back from service year and that was it: 3 years courtship, torn to shreds! Kunle finally wrote from the US, only for him to declare that he was no longer interested. I’m sure you’re familiar with these stories. They seem to be happening every day and if you are in courtship right now with a brother, you would agree with me that there’s a good reason for the question: Are you sure?
Gone are the days when a
lady can
relax once she’s found a Christian brother on fire for the Lord. She could be rest assured that a blissful marriage is already sure and secured.
Many have placed their
entire
confidence on the spirituality and trustworthiness of a highly respected brother. I’m sure you’ve heard stories of how disastrous and shocking their disappointments have been? So many ladies have had their emotions completely crashed, some others have cried heavy tears that refuse to dry and some are still crying, even now!
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| Are you sure of that Man? |
Quietly, in the heart of
every lady,
she wants to know if truly, she’s the one this guy loves or she’s just one of the multitudes of loved ladies around him. She really wants to be sure she’s not being deceived.
Coupled with the fact that
ladies out
there, are so desperate to get any good guy to marry, she’s not sure of her stand. Anytime
the Mr or Bro. fails to fulfil a promise or
meet up with an appointment, the deep question rings again, “Are you sure???” Sincerely, a lady in the heat of a relationship cannot really count how many times she asks that question. This is a major cause of her
several hours of deep thoughts (an example of
what men can never return/reconcile when they
break a relationship).
Dear reader, can I ask you?
Are you
sure of that brother? Will he be true to you? Will e keep faith with you in the toughest of times? What of when unavoidable circumstances put some distance in-between you (e.g. NYSC, job transfer, etc.): Now that he’s abroad, would he actually come back for you? Would he in the face of desperate lovers in his far away location; still reserve your place for months? Or for few years? Will he wait for you? Or will he later change his mind? Can you give an answer? Are you sure…
If you will be sincere, you
would
agree with me that you are not in any proper position at all to answer any of the above questions. As a matter of fact if you supplied any answers to the above, I’m afraid, you are just guessing. The truth is ONLY
DIVINITY CAN SUPPLY YOU WITH
THE
ANSWERS TO THESE QUESTIONS. It takes divinity to know what will happen that has not happened. Or can you by any means ever see the desperately wicked heart of a man.
Sorry Ma, only god has that equipment, you don’t. The
God who made man said that his heart is desperately
wicked and that no one can know it. Not even
you, my dear sister. Only God! Only God,
I repeat, can guarantee a relationship between a brother and a sister. He alone can make the brother “ZIP UP” when another lady “ZIPS DOWN” on him. This is the crux of this article.
Since only the Lord can
guarantee a
man for marriage; it will be like playing pool with your life to go ahead into a relationship with a man when you possess a dysfunctional and unhealthy relationship with the Lord Himself. Just imagine the kind of uncertainty of heart with which you will go into and through courtship and into marriage if you ever
survive to that point at all? Dear Reader, why
don’t you reconcile with Jesus and let Him be
your guarantor.
To be Continued >>>
