Monday 1 October 2018

NO SUBSTITUTE FOR EFFECTIVE LEADERSHIP


It's been 58 years she had her independence, yet her freedom is still fictitious. Like a child weaned before her time, Nigeria’s institutions have been ineptly formed. President Nelson Mandela declared to the world that freedom is a long walk. Unfortunately, Nigeria isn’t walking; she’s crawling and, perhaps, heavily derailed at the moment. The nation of Israel had 40 years long walk from the wilderness of independence, however, slavery mentality and attitudinal deficit had to be completely got rid of before they entered into their freedom. Similarly, 58 years of wandering in the wilderness of independence, Nigeria is still not free. Her precarious situations beg for working solutions. They require urgent and concrete attention, as her future looks nebulous.
Almost every generation from independence has looked up to United States, Canada, Australia or United Kingdom for education, exposure, equity or aids in order to sustain vitality; and young people do in order to protect the great potentials they carry from suffering miscarriage. Nigerians, the truth remains that, leadership is critical in the transformation of any nation.  Leadership is the most important factor in piloting human society. Everything rises and falls on leadership. In my extensive research into human society and civilization, I discovered that humanity had cried more as a result of leadership than all natural disasters put together. Whenever people wept bitterly or rejoiced exceedingly in history, leadership was probably implicated. Quick example is abolition of slavery by Abraham Lincoln through the Emancipation Proclamation, and orchestration of World War II by Adolf Hitler and other brutalities through the Malicious Practices Act 1933 in Nazi Germany.
There's no substitute for compassionate, competent and visionary leadership in bringing Nigeria to her Canaan Land. Leadership determines the destiny of a nation. Yet, our leaders seem to be more concerned about next positions than next generation. It was the iconic leadership coach, Dr. Myles Munroe, who said, "Nations of the world do not lack people in leadership. What they lack is leadership in the people who are in leadership. Government is only as effective as the leaders in it. No government is better than the people in it."  We have been swindled over the years with the lies of the so called leaders. They come subtly through our weaknesses: our attitude, habit and stomach. I have been writing for years that the problem of Nigeria is not the geographical location because we are pleasantly situated. The problem of Nigeria is Nigerians and their attitude. There's hope for Nigeria to be a better country if there's hope for Nigerians to be better citizens. Over the years we have cultivated habit of gullible acceptance and tolerance of incompetency, inefficiency and averageness in government. Excellence seems to be far from our personal or nation culture. Our habits have made us captives, and we’re being preyed both from within and outside our country. "The world is ruled by habit." Said Wallace D. Wattles "Kings, tyrants, masters, and plutocrats hold their positions solely because the people have come to habitually accept them. Things are as they are only because people have formed the habit of accepting them as they are. When the people change their habitual thought about governmental, social, and industrial institutions, they will change the institutions," he concluded.
"We cannot solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them", said a world-renown genius. Fellow citizens, it's becoming sin accepting our leaders as they are, just because they are from our ethnic or religious background. It's time Nigeria takes bold step in creating a national curriculum for Intentional Leadership Training and Development for next generation who would cause a wave of next national transformation. We urgently need proactive and competent situational leaders who would take command of the situations, apply right leadership style, form best leadership team, employ finest leadership skills, offer their deepest leadership insights, utilize their most profound leadership training and exposure to lead an inclusive government.
Happy Independence.

Pharm. 'Yemi Adekunle
+2348136194649
www.yemiadekunle.com.ng

Sunday 24 June 2018

7 Principles and Benefits of Planning in Effective Living


Early in April this year, I joined a team for an outreach in Oyo State. We were at the place on a Thursday till Sunday. On the last day of the exercise, a friend made a comment that sparked a train of thoughts in me on how people sometimes allow time to be wasted without a plan, and consequently, purpose is helplessly unpreserved. She said, “We were here on Thursday but it was just like an hour gone.”
Life runs in similar way: We were here some years ago and we will soon leave this planet. There are two irrevocable gifts of life that one has to be wise in handling: Time and opportunity. This is because what we do or don’t do with opportunity when time lasts invariably becomes the net worth of life.
While pondering on her words, my mind was inundated with hundreds of thoughts. I observed we were on a mission and we had a purpose to accomplish; we encountered unforeseen circumstances such as rainfall; we had reasons to make adjustment such as change venue, time or method; and despite the fact that the circumstances were not lenient on us, the time didn’t stop. If we had not planned our time, it would have just kept burning for nothing. Time waits for no persons, no matter their status.
Dr Mike Murdock wrote, “Planning is the starting point for any dream or goal that you possess.” He defined a plan as “a written list of arranged actions necessary to achieve your desired goal.” Planning becomes the highest form of faith in God. Failure to plan in the name of spirituality is foolishness. Such a deception is born out of lack of understanding of how God works. God is the planner of ages who never does anything without planning. Evidently, God never starts anything He has not finished. God stands in eternity and says, “Only my plan shall prevail.” Therefore, any visions or dreams that aren’t documented are mere wishes or hopes.
Follow me closely as I earmark the seven (7) principles and benefits of planning I learnt from our outreach.

Principle #1
Planning Preserves Purpose
On the second day of the outreach, we were heavily disturbed by rain. Nevertheless, we were able to accomplish our purpose for the hour because we had a guiding plan. Planning preserves purpose even though procedure may change.
Every man is here on earth to fulfill a purpose. However, discouragements will sediment at the bottom of our hearts from time to time. We will keep having discouraging thoughts, moments and circumstances to fight. But it is relieving to know that when we have a guiding plan for our lives, our purpose for each moment of our lives shall be preserved.

Principle #2
Planning Regulates Time
The greatest commodity in our life is time. Time is the only thing that is unambiguously equivalent to life.  Our life end up becoming what we exchange our time for. Therefore, time should be made accountable. It should be monitored and effectively spent
Time drips continually like the eastern earthen roof: sixty drops of the measure of time make one hour. When we have twenty-four hours, it makes one day. It doesn’t take long for time to accumulate. However, planning is the strategy by which time is prolifically captured.
Planning is the most effective time management strategy and a sure way of living effectively. Success is accomplishment and accomplishment is in doing. However, work will be uncoordinated or simply unregulated without adequate planning.
At the outreach, our time was regulated by planning. Everybody knew what to do, how to do, when to do, for what reason to do and when to do any items in our agenda of program. Our order of programme outlined when to sleep, when to eat, when to pray and when to work. So our time was well managed. Not only does planning regulate time, it also redeems time.

Principle #3
Planning Gives Value to Time
You probably have heard the saying: “How time flies!” Time is volatile; it vapourizes readily where there’s no planning. Our time out for the outreach from Thursday to Sunday was just like a few hours gone. On the last day, we could not believe we had spent about 3 days already for the program. Nonetheless, what counted at the end of the day was what we were able to accomplish according to our planning, even though time itself had flown away.
The best judge of our effectiveness in life is time. The quality of life is measured in domination or donation, not in duration. It is in what we have been able to do between the first life cry and the final breath.

Principle #4
Planning Helps to Accomplish Much within Short Time
A dream or goal with not deadline can last till eternity. An academic program that’s supposed to last for 3 years can be run for 7 years if there is no solid plan for it. For instance, you may be a PhD student and goes to the laboratory any day you feel like. However, having a plan can make a difference. This is because planning makes you to be disciplined.
Planning will dictate what kind of friend you choose, what number of hours you spend on TV, and what kind of book you read. In a nutshell, planning will help you to accomplish much within a short time.
Planning also monitors the progress of purpose. One can monitor one’s progress in business, academic, or ministry with a plan. During our outreach, we simply confirmed our progress by checking what agenda we had accomplished compared with what we set out to accomplish. So in short time, we made a great impact in the community.

Principle #5
Planning Helps to Shun Distractions
It is natural for discouragements to come. Many circumstances cannot be figured out at the beginning. But they will surface somewhere in the middle of the way. Both expected and unexpected distractions are best handle by having a solid plan.
The wisdom needed for the moment will come if there is a plan. Of course, you can’t adjust a plan you don’t have. When we were distracted by rain at our outreach, we changed the venue. In fact, some of us quickly came up with an alternative program that somewhat fulfilled the initial plan. A person who works with a plan is not readily distracted by little challenges.

Principle #6
Planning Checks Procrastination
A Planned Life is a Captured Destiny. You see, life can be funny. One may be at the realm of profession of what one would love to accomplish in life for the whole first half of one’s life. John Mason rightly said, “Some people spend half their lives telling what they are going to do, and the other half explaining why they didn’t do it.”
What you ought to do today may be postponed till tomorrow because nothing is planned for tomorrow. That of tomorrow too can be postponed till next tomorrow because every new day is always an unoccupied, unplanned day.
A loosed destiny is the one that is not planned. It can stray at will following the dictate of societal happenings. An unplanned life can be stopped by economic hardship but the mind of a planned one will devise a surviving mechanism no matter how difficult is it.
For our outreach, we never allowed our time to be dictated for by harsh circumstances we met on ground. We never procrastinate what we ought to do per time. Procrastination is not only a thief of time but also a thief of life because time is life.

Principle #7
Planning Helps in Maintaining Priority and Focus
There are one thousand and one things that will demand one’s attention in life. You cannot do or become everything. You don’t have to be everywhere; however, you can be somewhere and affects everywhere. This is the nature of light. Light only stays at the lamp-stand and gives illumination to everyone that comes in or goes out.
There are many good things that may demand for your time but not all good are right. A little deviation from what your priority should be may lead you where you should not be. Therefore, the key to effective living is priority. Planning is important in setting right priority. It will help you focus on few but glorious things you’ve carefully selected among other important things. By this, planning gives meaning to life.

'Yemi Adekunle
Writer, and Pharmacist.

Friday 5 May 2017

TWO EDGED SWORD; GRATITUDE AND DECLARATION.

My colleagues 've achieved far better than me in academics....

My friends are now employed in big parastatals both within and outside the country....

My mates are now known globally for what they do, many now hold big positions in the country....

My friends are now getting married and having children....

Yes you are right! Your friends are 'these' and 'that'..., however 've you forgotten that not all of your so called friends you started your primary education with are still alive till now?

You are right to some extent... if you think critically well, you 'll know that there are many of your age group/(mates) that are presently in the mortuary waiting for their families to claim their bodies....

When last did you visit the the Prison? Just try to pay the inmates a visit one day, you 'll see different age range including those you can categorise as "age mates".

Yes there are many of your colleagues that 've ended their sojourn on earth before you, just try to go to the cemetery and see the lists of names engraved on the each tombstones at the cemetery that are not even up to your age but are having eternal rest in their various graves.

I might not be where I want to be for now but I give glory to God for what, where I'm, and where He is taking me to. We should stop grumbling but show our gratitude to our maker. There are ways we can lay our petition to HIm without grumbling and comparing ourselves to others.

As I enter into another new year of birth, I give all the Glory and adoration to Him for the new age. It has been Him all these while. I decree and declare in this 5th Month of the year, and 5th day of the Month:

5 stands for Grace.
Grace has 5 letters
Mercy has 5 letters
Favor is 5 letters!
Peace has 5 letters
Water has 5 letters
Bread has 5 letters

I receive the GRACE of God, enjoy the MERCY of God, live a life of FAVOUR throughout the days of my life.
The PEACE of God that surpasses man understanding is with me and my household. There shall be peace into everything and everyone around me.
The Lord will WATER my life with great testimonies.
I will not lack BREAD, I will not beg for bread.
I will begin to open heaven and showers of blessing.

However, Death has 5 letters,
Grave has 5 letters,
Shame is 5 letters.

I prophesy into my life and family, I will not share in the DEATH that goes about in this new year and throughout the days of my life.
The GRAVE will not swallow me and everyone related to me.
I will never be put to SHAME.
In Jesus name!

#May5
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© Ayokunmi Solomon Jimoh